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9月21日

F.A.S.T

How To Recover From A Breakup.

Use the Extreme F.A.S.T. breakup recovery method to get over your ex for once and for all. This easy to follow method has four steps. Face It, Accept It, See The Lessons and Take Yourself To A New Level.

The first step is Face It. The alternative to facing it, is denying it. You can accelerate your healing process by facing what you need to face. It's important to know what to face and how. This is a crutial step to start feeling better.

The second step in the Extreme F.A.S.T. breakup recovery method is Accept It. Acceptance means that we can look into ourselves for honest answers about specific issues from the relationship.

The third step in the Extreme F.A.S.T. breakup recovery method is See The Lessons. Life is always guiding us to what is best for us. Through joyful and painful experiences, you learn lessons that help you grow. The key is to know where to look for the lessons, and how to make sense of the experiences. As you see the particular lessons you prepare for fulfilling and healthy relationships.

The fourth and last step in the Extreme F.A.S.T. breakup recovery method is Take Yourself To A New Level. This means to get to a new level in your life where you can start living in a more fulfilling way.This step also includes specific strategies to increase your self-esteem. 

9月11日

日出日落

 
这个日出日落时间计算器还是挺有用的,如果想看日出日落的话。
 
人这一辈子,会看多少次日出和日落...
 
跟谁一起看的?
 
 
 
 
9月4日

凋落

 
从天桥上买了盆铁线蕨摆在办公桌上。喜欢它红铜色闪着幽光的细长枝条和细碎繁复的叶子。小小的叶子,就像是银杏叶的缩微版,如同一柄小小的扇子。想想也是,既然是蕨,想必跟号称活化石的银杏关系有些近,叶子长得像倒也不怪。
 
这东西喜阴喜潮,缺不了水。特意为它配了个有蓝色碎花纹的盘子。花盆小,又不存水,每次浇上大半杯,几秒钟内就汩汩流入盘中。不过,三两天时间,盘子就干了。有时笑说,比我还能喝。
 
不知因为什么,总有些枯叶。请教打理植物的花工,他说:“没事,多浇点水。”宽了点心。
 
如果周五没有浇足水,一个周末下来盘子必定干得滴水不剩,所以就加倍小心。不幸的是,还是犯了个大错。出去培训三天,走之前忘了浇,再加上周末两天,再见时,它早已元气大伤,很多枝条让人心疼地发蔫了。又过几天,那些枝条就拦也拦不住地枯掉了。只好拿剪刀修掉。同事说,那几天想帮你浇来着,怕浇死,所以就没...
 
后来有一天听花工讲,从外面买的花,一定活不长。这是卖花人的诡计,比如在土里加点报纸啊什么的。养些日子,花就不行了;花不行了,就有可能再去买...果真如此吗?
 
有同事笑这植物日渐稀疏,如脱发般不可收拾。我倒是注意到从底下新长出来的小枝,所以终归是心存希望。
 
好好待它,会好起来吗?
 
呵呵,写两句送给这可怜的植物。
 
          那些曾经纷繁的枝叶
          无可挽回地
          凋落了
只留下新抽的条
怯怯地伸展